To all the wives:
I personally wanted to reach out to you all today and offer a hug to you. I knOw first hand how draining, confusing, and exhausting the fight you are going through is. You are VERY brave and strong to be on this site right now getting help and support.
As you can see there are pages and page of women with similar struggles to yours. Please know the Pink Cross Team and fellow wives are all here to lend an ear and a shoulder to cry on during this time. Whether you just found evidence that our spouse is dabbling in the adult industry or going on your 10th year of the fight, DON'T GIVE UP! Don't stop praying your spouse, yourself and your marriage until God sets you both free of the bondage satan wants to have on you. That snake won't win! God is bigger than any addiction or lifestyle. You can count on it! Psalm 121 talks about how God is always watching over us, he NEVER sleep. He's always watching over you. Let that sink into your soul today. He's there, you just have to ask for his help and then listen to what he has to say.
You are precious to Him.
Lord I'm claiming each women's marriage who is reading this post right now. I know you see the pain and heartache, the tears, the frustration and the desperation. I know because your word says so that you know the number of hairs on our heads and that you love us SO much. I know that you hear us. God I ask for a supernatural hedge of protection around each woman on this forum. I pray they draw closer to you during this fight and that they put on Your Armor so they are prepared for the path you will have to take them through to get to the end of this addiction. Lord I pray you place women who have "been there, done that" where the sexual addition fight is concerned in their lives, both on this forum and in their daily lives. Anoint their mentors with Your word and encouragement. Help these mentors to keep her eyes on you, NOT the world and what it says, but on you and your plan for her, her husband and her marriage through the recovery process. God you WILL be glorified! You are able!Thank you Jesus for paying for the sin of sexual addiction on the cross. The price has been paid, now we wait for the blessing of restoration, growth and recovery.
In Jesus' Name!
Amen and Amen
Andrea
Pink Cross Team Member
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I thank the Lord for leading me to this beautiful site. Being that my husband informed me of his addiction to porn I'm faithful the Lord is in progress with cutting the cords of bondage. The 1st step is admitting you have a problem. So he's certainly not in denial of it Yet, it IS a problem that spills over into us. Me...I feel I'm often compared. I also notice the difference in our love making which shows the impact of porn. That in itself is very frustrating to me because I feel he's not "all there" and that his mind is on the images of porn rather than me. It hurts...We are both Christians who left behind a whole lot of mess from the past. I at one point up until I met my husband in 2004 was a call girl/ adult model. So I'm no stranger to it. I actually considered porn at one point but never went through with it. So yes...we have come a long way leaving behind a wild life of drugs,sex and you name it! God is good and I'm..or shall I say, We are a living testimony of that fact. Satan cannot and will not win unless we allow it.
Thank you for that prayer. I felt it deep in my soul...God Bless!
HeHealsMe
Thank you for the encouraging words and Prayer for the Wives who are struggling through pain, confusion and broken trust.. I agree do not give up. It has been a 22 year on and off again struggle in my Marraige, we were both Christian who were caught in a stronghold. For oh so many years I just gave up and joined in which added to the struggle. 4 years ago I drew a line that I would not cross and began to pray ernestly for my husband. I am so happy to say that our battle has come to an end. We keep on our Armour, we pray together and stay in consistant Fellowship with other believers. So do not give up, Pray !!
Thank you SO much for your note and prayer. It really ministered to my heart.