hi there. i used to think that this "brothers and sisters" thing was quite cheesy. but i realized that that attitude was just me in denial about what i was doing. i was not merely trying to "detach" myself from the unfortunate men and women  in the images i was so fond of looking at, i was actually being indifferent, uncaring and callous to not only to them but to the whole experience and circumstance of porn and that included me. you are absolutely right my brother, that girl i get all excited about; that girl whom i get a kick out of watching all sorts of things done to her, IS my/our SISTER! to continue viewing the violence that is being done to my sister is me taking part in that violence. i cannot do that. it is inhuman. i must persevere in my resolution to, finally, stop watching and viewing porn. thanks for your post bro.