I was wondering if you wouldn't mind unpacking some of your thoughts and questions here a little bit.

I think that the 'able to love the right way' part could provide some really good discussion.

What were you hoping to find out with your question?

Chadwick
Pink Cross Moderator

"Blessed are those who persevere under trial, because when they have stood the test, they will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him."
James 1:12

The word "love" as defined by humans is different from God's definition. (--Newsflash-- People who engage in porn don't "love" one another!) God IS love so to know God is to know love. The more a person knows what His love looks like, the more disgusting porn will get. Then, they'll begin to think, "how did I ever 'get turned on' with this crap stuff in the first place???" I mean, it's hard to go back to processed food when one has tasted a real potato...... Mmm... maybe that's the problem- we've never tasted a real potato!

Shouldn't God know how sex should be done since HE's the one who thought it all up in the first place!!!? OF COURSE! Get on the "God Road" and He'll teach us how to love until it becomes second nature.